Have most of your single friends gotten engaged
or married in the last few years? Which leaves you
wondering…
Why isn't YOUR RELATIONSHIP moving forward?
Why doesn't a proposal seem like it's coming
any time soon - if at all - for you?
And why does it seem like such a struggle to
keep your relationship going, while other couples
are committing, in love, starting a family, and
making a future together?
And if that wasn't enough to make you feel
awful…
You observe that YOUR GUY gets all quiet
whenever he hears the news about yet ANOTHER
couple getting engaged or moving in together, and
seems to avoid the subject altogether.
Or worse… he's actually bothered and is
acting uncomfortable just at the THOUGHT of
commitment and marriage.
If you know what I'm talking about then I've
got bad news for you -
Have you ever heard of a "commitment-phobe"?
You may be dating one.
He may be doubting that he really wants to
spend "forever" with you.
Maybe he's simply afraid of the idea of
"forever".
Or maybe he just likes the idea that even
though you two may have an "understanding" that
you are a couple… he still has his "freedom" and
he isn't ready for happily ever after.
Or it is POSSIBLE that in the past he freely
gave his heart - only to be hurt and to not want
to "go there" again? Even with you?
As if all this wasn't confusing or frustrating
enough to figure out and know what to do with…
It hits you that maybe he's just a normal,
average guy who doesn't know what he wants.
So what are you supposed to do about THAT??!
Let me ask you…
Have you ever seen a man who you thought would
NEVER settle down and get married suddenly meet
the right woman and fall deeply in love with her?
A few weeks or months earlier this man might
have been talking about how he loves his single
life… and how he thinks he might never want to
get married… or at least until he's much older.
And then the right woman came along and all
that talk went out the window… as he seemed to
be magically transformed into a loving, caring,
loyal, committed man.
What happened?
Was he lying about wanting to stay single and
not get married?
Or did something change?
The truth is that men can come up with TONS of
reasons to NOT commit to a woman exclusively, and
to not want to "settle down".
But all the many reasons and beliefs that they
have can go out the window in a matter of
enchanted moments with the right woman.
Here's the point…
To SOME degree, most men are "hard-wired" to
feel like commitment isn't in their best interest,
and they act accordingly most of the time.
But…
All it takes is one good woman to come along
and change their entire BELIEF SYSTEM about what
LOVE and COMMITMENT really means… and how it
will affect their life.
The good news is that there are specific ways
that you can tap into the side of a man that will
open up to the benefits of a COMMITTED
RELATIONSHIP with you.
And you can do it more quickly and with less
"work" than you ever thought possible.
But only if you know how to communicate with a
man around the whole concept of COMMITMENT… and
show him how it's completely in HIS best interest.
He will be more open to the idea of commitment
if you know what triggers his commitment
resistance and how to avoid those triggers
This Meeting and Dating Men program will give you a
better understanding of what "commitment" really
means to a man, why men like to "just date"… and
how you can adjust your Commitment Timeline to his
so that you will ALWAYS know exactly what to say
and do (and when) in order to sync up with him as
you move forward and grow closer in your
relationship.
Don't wait for a man to figure things out and
lead your relationship forward on his own.
And don't make the mistake of trying to do all
the "heavy lifting" yourself to make things come
together and work in your relationship.
If you leave things up to a man and his
internal "wiring" that keeps him wanting to stay
"casual" and keep his freedom… then things
aren't going to move forward for you and grow more
committed on any level any time soon.
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