Saturday, April 11, 2009
Unique Ways to Apologize to Your Partner
If you feel bad about a wrong committed against the person you love you can choose any number of creative ways to show the person you are sorry. Saying your sorry is only half the battle in becoming a better person for your partner, but saying your sorry also shows that you have thought about what you have done wrong.
Sometimes it may take a little more than just simply saying the words “I’m sorry”. Your partner needs to know you really mean those words.
Therefore, you may want to tell the person you are sorry with flowers. However, beware that this attempt can get old if you end up being sorry way too often, so be careful.
Another way to tell a partner you are sorry is to say so in a letter. A heartfelt expression of your love for the person and a concrete plan towards positive change will sometimes be far more convincing than try to buy a person’s forgiveness with flowers.
When written the letter of apology to your partner, it would be more thoughtful if you would either hand write it carefully or print it on some quality stationery paper. You may also want to seal it in an envelope addressed to the person you are apologizing too. These sealing is a sign that you mean business.
Another way to prove you are sorry is to allow the other person time to decide if he or she will be willing to forgive you. You also will need to show that you know what you did is wrong without making excuses and you need to accept the fact that the person may not want to stay with you.
In fact, the previous point mentioned is the most important. You need to respect the space of the person you have wronged, and allow the person time to process the wrongdoing. You also need to be able to demonstrate the willingness to wait for the person for a reasonable amount of time.
The more compassion you show towards the person you wronged the better chance you stand of repairing the relationship. In the mean time, you are advised to treat the person with the utmost kindness without expecting anything in return for a considerable amount of time.
Once the relationship is more “back to normal” then you may be able to respectfully request things from your partner that are important to you. However, during this time of testing you may need to put your own relationship needs on the back burner temporarily.
How to Kiss in a Way that Will Turn your Woman On
The foremost important aspect of kissing a woman is to get the timing right. There is nothing more awkward than reaching toward a woman and watching her pull her head away.
Do not be embarrassed if this ever happened to you. At least you have learned your lesson. You know now to be sure it is the right time to kiss a woman. However, you may be wondering how to sense when a woman really wants to be kissed.
One way to know if a woman is ready to be kissed is to make eye contact with her and pay her a compliment. You may say that you enjoyed the evening you spent with her, or you may tell her that you think she has a pretty face. If she smiles back and has an expectant look in her eyes she most likely is waiting for you to kiss her.
If you want to play it safe you can kiss her on the check. However, even if it is a first date she may feel rejected if you do not at least touch her lips softly with yours. Speaking of playing it safe, if you doubt whether using tongue would be appropriate do not use it.
Instead, just give her a kiss that is just gentle enough to show you are sensitive to her feelings and personal space, but sexy enough for her to know you are interested in her. Kiss her like a girlfriend if you like her and not like she is a little kid, but consider the timing when deciding how passionate the kiss should be.
You may also want to consider location when attempting your first romantic kiss with a new date. Perhaps in the car before you drop her off or at her doorstep would be better than in a restaurant of crowded people. On the other hand, if the moment is right-especially if she kisses you first you know you can go for it no matter where you are.
If you are going to kiss in public, however, remember proper etiquette. A few friendly kisses during a dinner or on the dance floor or while taking a walk are appropriate. However, you want to avoid sloppy public displays of affection during which your tongue is stuck halfway down your girlfriends’ throat.
After some time has passed and you know that you and your new girlfriend are going to be exclusive, the kiss may grow to be more intense. It may even lead to your first love-making experience.
On Your Girlfriend's birthday
Send her something! It doesn't matter if they are flowers, candy, a teddy bear, or all three! Send her something. Send it to her class, her workplace, or deliver it personally. Girls love when they get something from their Boo publicly. No one wants to be that girl that doesn't get something from her boyfriend (in front of all her girlfriends) on her birthday.
Step3
Be Original. Any guy can take his girl out to eat. If you want serious brownie points, cook for her. There are plenty of easy recipes on the internet that will make her putty in your hands. Even if you screw it up, nothing says "you care" more than attempting to cook for her.
Step4
Make her a gift. Again, anyone can buy an expensive gift. Some girls may appreciate an expensive gift, but not as much as something that you spent the time to make. Make a scrapbook of goofy pictures of the two of you. Depending on the sense of humor you share, maybe a nice macaroni necklace would suffice.
How to Win the Approval of your Girlfriend’s Mother
Whether you are engaged to your girlfriend already or you are in the early stages of your relationship meeting her mother is a very important step for you. If you are a good man who is just a little nervous about meeting the woman who bore your girlfriend it is perfectly natural.
Many men feel as though they are being put on trial when they meet a girlfriend’s parents. This meeting can be even more difficult if the family of your girlfriend is very choosy. However, try not to worry so much.
The best way to impress your girlfriend’s mother is to act natural. Be yourself. There is nothing worse than trying to hard to be someone you are not and then totally “blowing it” and having to explain yourself later.
On the other hand, “being yourself” does not mean being rude and obnoxious and telling long strings of crude jokes. When you arrive, be pleasant and respond to a handshake or even light air kiss if necessary. Then, during dinner try not to dominate the conversation.
In order to avoid from nervously talking non-stop you may want to consider waiting for the mother to ask you questions about yourself. Do not give just short two-word answers but do not make your answers so long-winded you will bore her to sleep.
If the mother is talking, be sure to just sit back and listen, and respond with interest. Be careful not to interrupt her while she is sharing, especially if it is about her family. This is an opportunity to show the mom that you are interested in other people as well as yourself.
If it is a dinner meeting, you will want to show signs of gratefulness for the mom’s hospitality. Make sure you find something good about to say regarding the meal, even if you do not like the food. (By the way, you do not need to lie, you can say something like “I really appreciate the hard work you put into this meal” in a pleasant tone.)
Also, you might want to further show gratitude by cleaning up after yourself or offering to help the mom with the meal. Try not to appear over-eager and try to appear relaxed, even if you are nervous, but also show enough willingness to contribute to the meal as possible.
If the first meeting goes well, be sure to also follow up with future visits, or a thank-you phone call. As you get to know this woman who brought you your woman you may even consider giving her a birthday card or a holiday gift. She will appreciate it very much.
How to impress a girl
Be very well dressed each time you meet her, especially the shoes should be well polished or neatly tied up and don't forget to put on a nice manly perfume. Some of the things that you must not overlook while dressing up are your waist belt, wrist watch and of course your hair. If possible, carry a latest cell phone.
Always praise her and tell her how beautiful she is, she has nice hair or impressive eyes, a nice long neck. This tip is sure to work because girls like to hear good things about them all the time.
Don't hurry into getting physical with her, girls usually don't like men who try to get physical in the first few meetings itself. Give time to your relationship, make her feel that its her that you like and being physical is secondary.
Each time you meet her, take a gift for her, it could be flowers, a nice box of chocolates, a wrist watch or just anything that you think that she might like.
Girls love romantic movies, romantic books and a romantic Boy friend. Therefore try to show her that you are a romantic person, tell her that you like to go on long drives on a rainy day or love watching the sunset, candle light diners and stuff like that.
Always take your girl friend to a nice upscale restaurants and don't forget your table manners for example, pull the chair for the lady, call the waiter in style, leave a good tip after the meal. If you cannot effort to take her to an expensive place, take her to a locally owned restaurant because they tend to provide a more personal touch and a better customer service than most food chains.
Women get impressed by men who know how to cook. Show her your cooking talent by inviting her for lunch or dinner and cook a nice meal along with a very good presentation. You could put on some nice romantic music and start with a candle light dinner and then a soft dance.
Never disagree with her on any point and always say yes. Once a military lieutenant colonel was asked about the secret of his 35 years of happy married life, he said that he always said "yes mamm, you are absolutely right".
Call her once during the day to tell her that you are thinking of her. Appear genuine and confident in whatever you say. Pay attention when she is talking. Girls like surprises, although they love expensive gifts but smaller/cheaper gifts tend to do the magic too. Tell her how you love her smile or the way she laughs. Tell her that she is lucky for you. Take her out on a date at midnight on a full moon night to lay down and look at the stars.
Guys usually hate shopping, but girls love it, so hold your breath and take her for shopping.
If she happens to be a mom of a kid, remember it is more important to impress her kid even than the girl.
Impressing girls can be tough, but with a little preparation you can do a much better job. Good Luck.
Thursday, April 9, 2009
TRUE MEANING OF MALE STATEMENTS
Statement: "I'm a Romantic."
True Meaning: "I'm poor."
Statement: "You're the only girl I've ever cared about."
True Meaning: "You are the only girl who hasn't rejected me."
Statement: "I really want to get to know you better."
True Meaning: "So I can tell my friends about it."
Statement: "She's kinda cute."
True Meaning: "I wouldn't kick her out of bed but a pillow over the
head might be necessary."
Statement: "I don't know if I like her."
True Meaning: "She won't sleep with me."
Statement: "Was it good for you?"
True Meaning: "I'm insecure about my manhood."
Statement: "I had a wonderful time last night."
True Meaning: "Who are you?"
Statement: "Do you love me?"
True Meaning: "I've done something stupid and you might find out."
Statement: "Do you 'really' love me?"
True Meaning: "I've done something stupid and you're going to find
out sooner or later."
Statement: "How much do you love me?"
True Meaning: "I've done something really stupid and someone's on
their way to tell you by now."
Statement: "I have something to tell you."
True Meaning: "Get tested."
Statement: "I've been thinking a lot."
True Meaning: "You're not as attractive as when I was drunk."
Statement: "I think we should just be friends."
True Meaning: "You're ugly."
Statement: "I've learned a lot from you."
True Meaning: "Next!!!!"
Statement: "I'm on a long distance call, can you call me later?" True Meaning: "I gotta turn on my answering machine."
Monday, April 6, 2009
To the girls from guys
It makes us feel secure to know that our girlfriends aren't off flirting with guys we've never heard of.
*Also, don't talk about your ex-boyfriends.
We never have, nor ever will respect or like them, nor do we want to hear about them.
When you do, you're asking your boyfriend to be jealous.
You're asking your boyfriend to lose trust.
*On that, don't hump everything that walks into the room.
We don't care if you talk to other guys.
We don't care if you're friends with other guys.
But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.
It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there.
*Also, when we tell you you're pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/ cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it.
Don't tell us we're wrong.
We'll stop trying to convince you.
The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence.
Yeah, you can quote me.
*Don't be mad when we hold the door open.
Smile and say "thank you."
Let us pay for you.
Don't "feel bad."
We enjoy doing it.
It's expected.
Smile and say - everybody together now - "thank you."
*Kiss us when no one's watching.
If you kiss us when you know nobody's looking we'll be more impressed.
*You don't have to get dressed up for us.
If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have, put on every kind of makeup you own.
We like you for WHO you are and not WHAT you are.
*Don't flirt with guys when we're not around.
We'll find out. Trust us.
We have eyes everywhere.
And when we find out, we're pissed.
Not necessarily with the guys you flirted with, more-so with you.
*Don't take everything we say seriously.
Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it.
Don't get angry easily.
Stop using magazines/media as your bible.
*Don't talk about how hot Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt is in front of us.
It's boring, and we don't care.
You have girlfriends for that.
*Whatever happened to the word "handsome"?
Why does everything have to be "hot/sexy"?
I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with "Hey handsome!" instead of "Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy" or whatever else you can think of.
Claiming girls or guys to be "hot" shows immaturity.
**Girls, I cannot stress this enough: if you aren't being treated right by a guy, don't wait for him to change.
Ditch his sorry, disgrace-to-the-male-population ass, and find someone who will treat you with utter respect.
Someone who will honor your morals.
Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest.
What women actually mean when they say somthing
No = Yes
Maybe = No
Whatever=F*** U
I'm sorry. = You'll be sorry.
We need... = I want
It's your decision = The correct decision should be obvious by now.
Do what you want.=Youll pay for this later.
We need to talk.= I need to complain.
Sure...go ahead = I don't want you to.
I'm not upset = Of course I'm upset, you moron!
You're so manly = You need a shave and you sweat a lot.
You're certainly attentive tonight = Is sex all you ever think about?
Be romantic, turn out the lights = I have flabby thighs.
This kitchen is so inconvenient = I want a new house.
I want new curtains = .and carpeting, and furniture, and wallpaper.....
Hang the picture there = NO, I mean hang it there!
I heard a noise = I noticed you were almost asleep.
Do you love me? = I'm going to ask for something expensive.
How much do you love me? = I did something today you're really not going to like.
I'll be ready in a minute = Kick off your shoes and find a good game on TV.
Am I fat? = Tell me I'm beautiful.
You have to learn to communicate. = Just agree with me.
Are you listening to me!? = Too late, you're dead.
Was that the baby? = Why don't you get out of bed and walk him until he goes to sleep.
I'm not yelling! = Yes I am yelling because I think this is important.
In response to What's wrong?: The same old thing = Nothing
Nothing = Everything
Nothing, really = It's just that you're such an idiot!
Girl's Secret languages translated.
Millions of things are running in her mind
When a GIRL is not arguing,
She is thinking deeply
When a GIRL looks at u with eyes full of
questions,
She is wondering how long you will be
around
When a GIRL answers "i'm fine" after a
few seconds,
She is not at all fine
When a GIRL stares at you,
She is wondering why you are lying
When a GIRL lays on your chest,
She is wishing for you to be hers forever
When a GIRL calls you everyday,
She is seeking for your attention
When a GIRL sms's u everyday,
She wants you to reply at least once
When a GIRL says I love you,
She means it
When a GIRL says that she can't live
without you,
She has made up her mind that you are
her future
When a GIRL says "i miss you",
No one in this world can miss you more
than that.
Random things that Guys like about their Gals
1.The way they always smell good even if it's just shampoo
2.The way they always find the right spot on our shoulder
3.How cute they look when they sleep
4.The ease in which they fit into our arms
5.The way they kiss you and make everything alright in the world
6.How cute they are when they eat
7.The way they take hours to get dressed but in the end its all worth while
8.The way they are always warm even if its minus 30 degrees
9.The way they look good no matter what they wear
10.The way she fishes for compliments even though you both know shes the most beautiful thing on this earth
11.how cute they are when they argue
12.How their hand always seems to find ours
13.The way they smile
14.The way you feel when you see her name on the caller id after you've had a big fight
15.The way she says "lets not fight anymore" even though you know an hour later...
16.The way they kiss you when youve done something nice for her
17.The way they kiss you when you say"i love you"
18.Actually.. just the way they kiss you
19.The way they fall into your arms when they cry
20.Then apologizing for crying over something that silly
21.The way they hit you and expect it to hurt
22.Then the way they apologize when it really does hurt (even though we dont admit it!)
23.The way they say "I miss you"
24.The way you miss them
25.The way their tears make you want to change the world so that it doesnt hurt her anymore...Yet regardless whether you love them, hate them, wish they would die or know that you would die without them... it matters not.Because once in your life whatever they were to the world they become the world to you.When you look them in the eyes traveling to the depths of their souls and you say a million things without a trace of sound you know that your own life is inevitably consumed with the rhythmic beatings of her very own heart. We love them for a million reasons, no paper would do it justice. It is a thing not of a mind, but of the heart. A feeling. Only felt.